Shiva Essentials
A simple guide to what you'll need. You don't have to figure this out alone.
During a shiva, the community takes care of the details — bringing food, setting up the home, and being present. Here's what the home will need so you can focus on your family.
Not sure where to start?
One order covers the basics for the whole week.
Food & Serving
Meals will be coming in all week. Here's what you need to serve them.
Household Supplies
With dozens of visitors a day, supplies go fast. Stock up early.
Full Shiva Checklist
Step-by-step guide to preparing the home, from mirror coverings to seating to supplies.
View Checklist →Comfort & Sympathy
Small gestures that let the family know they're not alone.
What the Funeral Home Provides
Most of these are included in the funeral home's service. Call them before buying anything on this list — they handle more than most families expect.
Coordinating Meals for the Family?
Set up a page so the community can sign up to bring meals — and make sure every day is covered.
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